Mr. Deji from Ibadan narrates how his wife whom he just got married to urinates every day on their matrimonial bed. He is currently agitated and wishes to call off the marriage, stating that it is a taboo from where he comes from.
He complained bitterly and said he has even moved out of his house as a result of the act.
Mr. Deji said, “I am terribly troubled as regards my marriage which is just barely 3 months old. I am married to this Benin girl called Adesuwa. We abstained from sleeping together till after our wedding. I guess because of this I never knew she had a terrible habit.
“My wife urinates on the bed every day. Actually, I suspect she knew this terrible habit was unaccommodating hence she preached abstinence all the while we were courting.
“My wife deceived me knowing fully well that at the age of 29 she still urinates on the bed.”
He continued by saying:
“From the part of Ibadan, I come from, its a taboo to cohabit with someone who wets the bed. I have complained to my father and he says that it was an old taboo that was made out of ignorance and wetting the bed was actually a medical condition that can be cured. He says he sees nothing wrong with it if she is good at other things.
“My mum is on the same page with my dad and also with some few friends who I confided in.
“Actually, my wife is the happiest nurse I have ever come across in my life. Very contented and intelligent.
“In my town, an adult that wets the bed brings bad-luck to everyone around them.
“Since I got married to her all my customers suddenly became debtors.
“Since I noticed it I have parked out of my house and taking refuge in my best friend’s house.
“Now my best friend’s wife is angry with me and has called me out. She has given me a quit notice to go and reconcile with my wife. She gave me only two days to leave their house.
“I have told her to leave my house before my return from where I went to take refuge this week.
Mr. Deji is seeking a divorce but doesn’t know the right time to do so as the marriage is barely just three months.
“Please at what time can I divorce her as a friend said it was too early and the courts would not grant a divorce? What do I do ? does her condition have a remedy?
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Dont divorce her its not a crime is a test for you and her, is life principle any body can be a victim