Power of Parenting: How your style shapes your child’s future
Story by Jamila Yunusa SULEIMAN
Parenting is often regarded as one of the most challenging roles, requiring continuous emotional and physical effort. The goal for every parent is to raise a child with sound character and an attractive personality, which is seen as a lifelong achievement.
Parenting styles vary widely and are influenced by individual perspectives on leadership. Research has identified four major parenting styles, each with distinct impacts on children that can persist into adulthood.
Authoritarian Parenting Style
This style is characterised by a dictatorial approach where parents make all decisions and expect obedience without question. Affection is rare, and punishments for disobedience are severe. Children raised this way may develop a follower mentality, struggle with decision-making, and have low self-esteem, often seeking validation from others.
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Authoritative Parenting Style
Often described as “tough but fair” or “firm but nurturing,” this style involves setting strict standards while providing support and affection. Parents encourage children to learn from their mistakes and be confident, responsible, and decisive. This style is widely regarded as the most effective for fostering well-rounded development.
Permissive Parenting Style
This style is the opposite of authoritarianism, with parents setting few or no rules. They allow children to do as they please to avoid disappointment. Often, parents who grew up under authoritarian rule adopt this style. However, children raised permissively may become rebellious, defiant, emotionally unstable, and prone to harmful behaviors.
Neglectful Parenting Style
Also known as uninvolved parenting, this style is characterised by a lack of involvement in the child’s life. There are no rules, affection, or emotional support. This neglect can lead to severe consequences such as depression, social isolation, difficulty maintaining relationships, and hostile behavior.
In conclusion, understanding the impacts of different parenting styles is crucial. While combining elements from various styles can be beneficial, parents should carefully consider the potential consequences of each approach.
Proofreading by Sakinat Abubakar Musa, Editor at Neptune Prime
