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Why I’m still a virgin, single at 103 – Woman

The woman detailed her deep affection for a white boyfriend named John, whom she failed to meet again after he left.


Why I’m still a virgin, single at 103 – Woman

A 103-year-old Tanzanian woman identified as Mariam Hussein has narrated her lifelong love story and patience.

The woman detailed her deep affection for a white boyfriend named John, whom she failed to meet again after he left without a proper farewell.

Hussein, who spoke with Afrimax’s English anchor, Simon Greenwood, in Swahili (translated to English) said she was convinced that her European boyfriend would find her soon so they could rekindle their love, but she ended up single and celibate all her life.

She also explained that John was a very young vibrant man, full of adventure and kindness, who had come to Tanzania for some interesting time.

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“I met John, a young white man from Europe who had come to Tanzania in search of adventure and purpose. I helped him navigate and settle comfortably into his new environment.

“Over time, our friendship blossomed into something more, to be honest, he was unlike anyone I have ever met. His manners, stories, and kindness all fascinated me, he respected my culture and showed genuine interest in my life and aspirations. We spent countless hours envisioning a future filled with love and happiness, I believed he was truly unique and indeed he was.

“Our relationship blossomed and I found myself falling deeply in love, every moment we spent together made my feelings for him grow stronger, I could see that he loved me too, his eyes sparkled with genuine affection whenever he looked at me and his actions always showed his care and commitment.

“I love him back wholeheartedly and unconditionally because, for the first time in my life, it was all about love in its purest form. We shared dreams, hopes and secrets together, building an unbreakable bond. I also hoped that John would be the one to change my destiny, I dreamt that he may take me away from the life of struggle I had always known and experienced with him, I envisioned a future filled with endless possibilities, free from the hardship that had defined my past.

“He gave me hope that together we could build a new life full of love and happiness,” the woman said.

The woman, who has never married nor had children, stressed that her hopes were dashed when John abruptly received an urgent call to return to his village without bidding her farewell or explaining.

Devastated by his sudden disappearance, Hussein spent years searching for him, believing that he would someday return to fulfil their dreams.

Furthermore she said, “I was so devastated because I couldn’t believe he had disappeared initially. I considered the possibility of it being a prank or a test of my patience. I searched high and low for John desperately hoping for an explanation but he was nowhere to be found. Days turned into weeks, weeks turned into months and still there was no trace of him, months turned into years and yet I clung to my hope that John would eventually return.

“I refused to accept the idea that he may not come back anytime soon despite the wonderful moments we had shared, I remained a virgin because in our culture, it was expected that a woman preserves her purity until marriage, having sex before marriage was considered a taboo so I made it my priority to maintain my purity,”  she noted.

“I believed that one day, we would be married and my patience would be rewarded. however, as years went by, the hopes of his returns began to fade, leaving me feeling both betrayed and alone. Nevertheless, I remained resolute in my promise to myself and my culture,” she said.

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