When marriage becomes ‘Ibadah’, by Aisha M Auyo
Marriage is such a huge opportunity to earn good deeds. Everything you do for your spouse can potentially be an act of worship simply by adjusting your intention.
Seek to please Allah and be intentional. Every single thing you do with and for your spouse can be a form of worship when Ihsan is your motivation, and your heart is engaged in the remembrance of Allah in some way.
And by default, when good things become a habit, your good deeds are habitually earned too, insha’Allah.
From time to time, make a specific intention and say, “Oh Allah, I am doing this for my spouse only for Your sake and to earn Your pleasure.” You’ll feel the difference. A mundane task gets supercharged!
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Umar ibn Al-Khattab reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said:
“Verily, deeds are only with intentions. Verily, every person will have only what they intended. Whoever emigrated to Allah and His Messenger, then his emigration is for Allah and His Messenger. Whoever emigrated to get something in the world or to marry a woman, then his emigration is for whatever he emigrated for.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 54, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1907
This hadith and post are especially important for my fellow women… wives… If all the good and extra things you do for your man are just so he wouldn’t marry another woman, know that your reward stops there. And he may marry other wives if that’s in his Qadr.
If you’re being obedient, respectful, kind, and many other good things just so you’d be his favourite among his wives, it might work, but know that the reward may stop there.
Let’s always remember that this world is only temporary… Our permanent abode is the aakhira. I am not in any way saying you should stop whatever you’re doing. In fact, I suggest we always try to improve, increase, and upgrade… Just be conscious of your intentions and be deliberate in whatever you do. By doing so, we will have double reward… here and in the hereafter, in sha Allah.
Aisha Musa Auyo is a Doctorate researcher in Educational Psychology. A wife, a mother, a homemaker, caterer, parenting, and relationship coach. She can be reached via aishamuauyo@live.co.uk
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