‘I have no regrets; I lived fully and gratefully,’ says 100-year-old Hassana Musa
Story by Maryam SALEH & Kasim Isa MUHAMMAD
Hassana Musa, a 100-year-old resident of Potiskum Local Government Area of Yobe State, from the Kampala area, has lived through a century of
remarkable experiences marked by peace, simplicity, and wisdom. In this exclusive interview with Neptune Prime, she reflects on her life’s journey, sharing memories of her youthful days, the values that shaped her generation, and heartfelt advice for the younger ones.
Neptune Prime: Can you tell us about your childhood and what life was like when you were growing up?
Hassana: My childhood was a beautiful and memorable chapter of my life. It was a time when life was simple, affordable, and full of contentment. People lived modestly but with dignity and peace. We never experienced the kind of insecurity that troubles society today. The air was pure, the environment was calm, and diseases were rare. Families were close-knit, neighbours cared for one another, and children grew up under the watchful eyes of not just their parents but the entire community. We had fewer distractions, and that allowed us to truly appreciate the little joys of life, playing in open fields, sitting under trees during the evening breeze, and sharing laughter without worry.
Neptune Prime: What are some of the happiest memories from your early years?
Hassana: Some of my happiest memories revolve around the peaceful family life we enjoyed. Our parents were our first teachers, instilling discipline, respect, and compassion in us. I remember how we gathered every evening to share stories, meals, and laughter. Even after our parents passed away, their teachings remained the guiding light of our lives. We continued to live peacefully and respectfully, just as they taught us. The bond we shared as siblings was unbreakable, and our home was always filled with warmth and togetherness. Those were truly golden years that I will forever cherish.
Neptune Prime: Were there any challenges you faced as a young person that shaped the way you see life today?
Hassana: Honestly, during my youth, life was much easier and more secure than it is today. We did not face major challenges as the young people of this generation do. There was unity and collective responsibility; everyone looked out for one another. That sense of community and safety shaped my view of life. It taught me that a peaceful society is built on honesty, trust, and mutual care. When people live with sincerity and fairness, challenges are easily overcome. Those values still guide my understanding of what true happiness and security mean.
Neptune Prime: What values or principles do you think every young person should live by?
Hassana: The world today is fast-paced and full of temptations. Young people must remember that obedience to their parents is the foundation of lasting success. When you earn your parents’ blessings, you attract divine favour that follows you all through life. Respect for elders, humility, honesty, and patience are virtues that never go out of fashion. The youth must learn that success built on deceit or arrogance never lasts. True success is built on knowledge, good manners, and the fear of Allah.
Neptune Prime: If you could go back to your youth, what is one thing you would do differently?
Hassana: I would not wish to go back to my youth, not because it was unpleasant, but because I have no regrets about that time. I lived fully, loved sincerely, and made good use of every opportunity. My youth was filled with purpose and joy. I am content with the choices I made and the lessons I learned. The fulfilment of that period continues to inspire me in my old age. I always tell people that peace of mind comes from living without regrets and being grateful for every stage of life.
Neptune Prime: What advice would you give young people about handling failures or disappointments in life?
Hassana: Failure is not the end; it is a teacher. Young people should approach failure with patience, reflection, and renewed effort. They must invest their youthful energy in continuous learning, prayer, and obedience. These are the true pillars of success. No one can thrive without knowledge, spiritual strength, and the guidance of their parents. Life is a journey of ups and downs, and it is through perseverance that one builds resilience. So, whenever they fall, I advise them to rise with gratitude and keep moving forward.
Neptune Prime: In your lifetime, what kind of leaders have inspired you the most, and why?
Hassana: Throughout my lifetime, I have encountered many leaders who demonstrated integrity and humility. I may not mention specific names, but what inspired me was their sense of responsibility. In the past, leadership was viewed as a sacred trust. People accepted leadership positions with fear of accountability before God. They served selflessly and were always mindful of the people’s welfare. That spirit of sincerity is what I admired most in the leaders of my generation.
Neptune Prime: What qualities do you believe good leaders should have to guide society?
Hassana: A good leader must be honest, transparent, and just. Leadership is a trust, and a leader’s first duty is to serve, not to be served. When given a responsibility, one must ensure that resources reach the rightful beneficiaries. A leader should not hoard or misuse what belongs to the people. Compassion, fairness, and the ability to listen are essential qualities. Leadership is not about wealth or power, it is about integrity and sacrifice.
Neptune Prime: How do you think today’s leaders differ from those of your time?
Hassana: The difference is like night and day. In our time, leadership was a burden many avoided because it came with great responsibility. People feared being unjust. Today, many chase leadership positions for personal gain. Corruption, dishonesty, and self-interest have replaced trust and sincerity. In the past, a leader’s word was sacred; today, promises are easily broken.
Neptune Prime: How do you spend your time now, and what keeps you happy in your old age?
Hassana: These days, I spend most of my time at home. My greatest joy now comes from my grandchildren. They visit me often, and their laughter fills my home with life. I love listening to their stories and watching them grow. Their presence reminds me that life continues through the generations. I also enjoy receiving visitors, especially neighbours and relatives. Sharing conversations, food, and memories keeps my spirit alive.
Neptune Prime: Is there a book, song, or tradition that has always stayed with you throughout your life?
Hassana: I cannot say there is a particular book or song that has stayed with me, but the traditions of our upbringing, respect, hospitality, and faith, have never left me. Those values are my constant companions. They shape how I relate to others and how I see the world.
Neptune Prime: What life lessons have you learned that you wish more people understood?
Hassana: I have learned that life is unpredictable. Sometimes it blesses you, other times it tests you. The key is to remain patient and prayerful. I have also learned that nothing in life is permanent, neither joy nor sorrow. We must therefore live with gratitude and humility. I always pray for Allah’s protection and guidance for my children, grandchildren, and for people everywhere. The world would be a better place if everyone lived with compassion and sincerity.
Neptune Prime: How would you like to be remembered by your family and community?
Hassana: I want to be remembered for my generosity and the little acts of kindness I shared during my lifetime. I used to prepare pap often, not only for myself but for anyone who came to my home. I always believed that what you eat is gone, but what others eat from your hands remains a lasting reward in the hereafter. I want people to remember me for the food, the warmth, and the care I offered freely. One day, visitors will come and find neither me nor my pap container, but I hope the memory of my hospitality will remain alive in their hearts.
Neptune Prime: What message would you leave behind for future generations?
Hassana: My message is simple: be mindful of time. Time passes quickly, and no one lives forever. Use it wisely. Live peacefully, respect others, and seek harmony wherever you go. Life is too short for conflict and envy. I encourage future generations to build communities based on love, patience, and mutual respect. Those who live in peace leave behind a legacy that never fades.
Neptune Prime: When you look back, how do you feel about the journey of life so far?
Hassana: I feel grateful. My journey has been blessed with peace, lessons, and love. Every stage of life taught me something valuable. Childhood taught me innocence, youth taught me hard work, and old age has taught me contentment. I thank Allah for giving me a life full of meaning and for surrounding me with family and loved ones.
Neptune Prime: What do you think is missing in the modern world compared to the past?
Hassana: The modern world lacks patience and sincerity. People rush through life chasing material things but forget the value of peace and contentment. In the past, we had less, but we had more joy. People trusted one another, shared meals, and celebrated together. Today, there is more wealth but less happiness. I pray that the younger generation learns to slow down and appreciate the true essence of life.
Neptune Prime: What gives you hope when you think of the future?
Hassana: My hope lies in the hands of the young ones. I see potential in them. Despite the challenges, many are striving to make positive changes. If they combine knowledge with good character, they can rebuild society with integrity. My hope is that they remember the wisdom of their elders and use it to light their path.
Neptune Prime: Finally, what words of wisdom would you want people to remember from you?
Hassana: Remember that kindness never goes to waste. Be sincere, be patient, and always be grateful. Life is a journey that ends sooner than we think, so let your actions speak of love and honesty. May Allah bless every heart that seeks goodness and guide every soul toward peace.
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