NP’s Family Dynamics With Sis Eesher: Intimacy and Financial Stress in Marriage Dear Sis Eesher, What do you do when you have tried every possible means to strengthen intimacy in your marriage, yet nothing changes? My wife has repeatedly said her reason for not being interested in sex is that we are going through a financial strain. It has been over a year now, and within that period, we have only had sexual intimacy about five times. I lost my job two years ago, and I am still trying to get another one....