In carrying out a wife's dual mandate, by Aisha M Auyo "You are married to me and not the kids.” “I was here before the kids.” “I come first and not the kids.” “Your primary duty is to me and not the kids.” How often do wives/mothers hear the above statements? Very often of course. And to many, it's a shame that husband or fathers compete with their kids to get the attention of the woman of the house? Is it really? Well, one may say “aren’t you lucky to have your husband and kids...